For my birthday,
I don’t need presents,
and please, no fancy parties.
preferably with love by my mom,
and I DO want acknowledgment from my family that it’s my birthday.
I had expected my grandmother to call me on THE day, asking to come over to celebrate my birthday with me.
The morning of THE day, the phone stayed silent.
By late afternoon of THE day, the phone remained silent.
My heart sunk.
My grandmother had forgotten my birthday.
I used to not care if she had forgotten.
But this year it DID matter because our relationship had improved significantly.
She meant more to me than I had realized.
I was hoping she shared that same feeling. I was hoping she would call me to wish me happy birthday.
I tried to brush aside my disappointment but the feeling lingered inside me.
After a few days, I finally got the courage to call her.
We chatted a bit. Then came the moment of truth.
I asked my grandmother if she remembered when was my birthday.
She responded with the correct date.
She said that she had waited all day on THE day for us to call her, to invite her over. She had my present all ready to go.
We never called.
I told her I was waiting for HER to call US.
She never called.
This is an example of how misunderstandings arise.